Until now, I had never spent much time contemplating the ramifications of having sex on the Internet, in photographs, videos or live cam shows. I had never spent any time thinking about it, because I never really cared much what anyone thought.Until now, I had never spent much time contemplating the ramifications of having sex on the Internet, in photographs, videos or live cam shows. I had never spent any time thinking about it, because I never really cared much what anyone thought. The decision I made to perform was, in my mind, the ultimate symbol of sexual and personal liberation.

My chick (Nicole of NakedNicole.com) performs about four hours of live cam shows for her website each week, and I will usually join her about 25% of the time. The chat room comments are always the same when I make an appearance… “Chef Jeff is one lucky bastard” or, “Man that guy is lucky” and “I wish I were that guy” rounds out the top three chat room clichés when my penis shows up on cam.

It is true – I am a rather lucky guy. After all, I spend the majority of my day working with photographs of what are for the most part, beautiful women. Nicole is a sexy web model with a smoking body. I frequently find myself at fabulous parties with other hot web girls and from time to time, with the blessing of my beloved, I get a little action on the side. Several months ago at Rick Muenyong’s (AmateurMasters.com) Amateur Fest Party, a couple of other guys and myself stayed up all night with two web girls. The girls gave us all great blowjobs, and we stayed up and messed around with the girls all night taking turns with our “money shots.”

Where am I going with all of this? Many men would like to trade places with me. They constantly fantasize about being with a web girl and they chat boastfully about how good they would give it to Nicole if only they were the ones on the live cam with her. But when it comes right down to it, most of them would ultimately not follow through if ever given the chance. Why? What heterosexual male would in his right mind turn down a chance to have sex with a web girl on cam? The truth is that the majority of Americans would never want to be seen naked on the Internet, much less having sex (those that are actually ABLE to perform on camera, that is). As it also turns out, there are a large number of web girls who’s spouse or partner also do not want to been seen on the Internet. The web girl, in that case, either performs alone or with a male other than her spouse or partner.

If you are also the kind of guy that does not have a problem being naked on the web but you are not married to a hot web girl like me, do not despair. There is hope! Some men start their own amateur sites without the benefit of a female partner. IgetHead.com and ChickShack.com are good examples of this. You can be the male star of your own amateur website by hiring models to perform with you or by shooting with web girls that will perform with men. There are quite a number of them out there. You can contact some of the amateur swinger sites by email or plan on attending some of the yearly adult Internet conventions.

You would be surprised how easy it can be to gather plenty of content for your male amateur web site. My partner and I were hosting a party at last years’ Internext, and we were mingling among the party guests when out of the blue a web girl walks right up to my partner and said, “I really need some guy-girl content for my website… would you mind it if I sucked your cock?” That is when I knew that whether we ended up going broke or becoming millionaires, there are too many benefits to being in the adult industry to ever walk away from it. Where else does that sort of thing happen?

I do not know if I could hack being a professional male porn star or not. I think that they have to deal with a lot more pressure than an amateur Internet performer. Unlike the amateur, the professional male performer is expected to get hard, stay hard, and finish the job every time. The producers of professional porn have money invested and expect a certain product, whereas the amateur does not have any professional obligation to complete his scene with an orgasm. As much as I would really like to have the opportunity to work with some of the female porn stars that are working today, I think that I prefer the comfort of doing things on the web at my own discretion. As an amateur, there is no pressure to perform up to a certain standard, thus making it easier to perform. The absence of a production crew in my bedroom also makes things considerably easier.

One of the downsides to being involved in an amateur photo shoot with women other than your partner or spouse (if you have one), is learning to deal with a variety of women’s personalities. Every woman has a different comfort level. When it came time for my partner to do his blowjob scene with the web girl whom he met at our Internext party, I handled video and her webmaster handled photos. The shoot was going great, my partner was having a good time and she was doing a great job on his member when he politely pulled her hair out of her face so that it would not cover the shot. She was not very pleased with this, and it turned out she had serious issues with men pulling her head down as she was giving head. But the truth is he was not pulling her head down – he was simply moving her hair out of the way. Unfortunately this was not the way she felt. How was he to know that she would react that way? The mood was ruined and they never finished the act. But not all web girls are so sensitive. For this reason I highly recommend getting to know the girls that you will be performing with prior to doing any shooting. Make sure you are aware of what is and isn’t appropriate and always ask before touching.

Being an amateur male performer has its benefits, but it also has its shortcomings. If you feel that it is something you wish to pursue then I suggest getting out your checkbook and hiring some professional adult models that will work with you or contacting web girls that are willing to perform with amateur male talent. Good luck!

ChefJeff is the editor of The Amateur Voice, The Industry Voice and Radio Show Host of Amateur Masters Live and can be reached via email at editor@theamateurvoice.com.