Natassia Dreams (www.natassia-dreams.com) is one of the most beautiful transsexual porn stars working today. But don’t let her good looks fool you: Natassia’s got a brain and intelligent opinions on a number of timely topics – including avid T-girl fans:YNOT.com: Please tell us about yourself.
Natassia: Hello, everyone. I’m Natassia Dreams, adult actress and Internet sex kitten; dubbed as one of the most convincing TS in the industry at the moment. In normal life, I am the girl next door who stays with family, cooks meals and cleans. But when I’m on set, another person comes to life!
YNOT: When did you decide you were TS, and how did you deal with the transition?
Natassia: I’ve always felt like the opposite sex, and my mother and people around me saw it too. But it wasn’t until I moved out of San Diego to NYC and discovered hormones and many transgendered people that my curiosity was piqued. Once I knew about hormones, all I knew was I wanted them!
YNOT: How did you get into the adult business?
Natassia: I was asked to shoot my first scene 6 years ago. I was living in Miami and somehow they stumbled across my number and gave me a call. The money sounded good and I was able to perform with my then boyfriend at the time. I was still super nervous but got the job done! Next thing you know, I was contacted for photo shoots and parties – then next I met a male model who got me my first DVD and cover, Transsexual Prostitutes Volume 31.
YNOT: What do you love and hate about the industry?
Natassia: I am a very sexual person so I love to be exploratory. I’ll try just about anything on or off cam. I enjoy sex and I get off that people are watching me being aroused. I like to watch and be watched.
The things I hate about the industry is that there are not many guys to work with. The ones you do work with are older, Extra Fem, or you’ve shot with them at least five plus times already so it loses a little luster.
Another thing I hate about the industry is the cum shot. I mean there is no way a TS can be ‘stealth’ (undetected in society) and be able to shoot a load across the room. It doesn’t work that way and I hate people that live in that bubble.
YNOT: Okay, you just said ‘there is no way a TS can be ‘stealth’ and be able to shoot a load across the room.” Does this mean that you, as a TS, do not orgasm at all? Or do you do so in a less dramatic/different way?
Natassia: Okay, here’s the dynamics of that from my perspective. As a castrated transsexual who has been on hormones for 12 years, I do sometimes miss the ejaculation that comes from an orgasm, but I still have the sensation. When you take hormones it messes up the testosterone levels that help you produce semen.
But the orgasm is definitely there and since I am castrated, I can orgasm and still keep going for multiple times nonstop. I prefer that to being to ejaculate something out of me and look masculine in the day time.
YNOT: So what is it like being a TS in day-to-day life?
Natassia: Well, for me being a TS in day-to-day life is very difficult. On first approach most people assume I am a genetic female, and treat me accordingly. Only after they find out — by my telling them or my voice – does their attitude change.
I also train in a lot of different mixed martial arts, which is a male dominated sport and it’s very difficult to hide my true being while training with women. On my off days I try to be inconspicuous as possible because I hate all the extra uninvited attention.
YNOT: As a TS, how challenging is it to find solid relationships and meet decent men?
Natassia: It is extremely challenging for someone to first accept you’re a transsexual. Then accepting that you are a sex worker (porn, escort, bdsm) is another huge stepping stone as well. I tend to like heterosexual men who have never been with a transsexual before and those are two big pills to swallow for them. I tend to go for Alpha males who are very attractive, popular with the opposite sex, nice body, great personality. They are nearly perfect men; of course that’s what every girl is looking for, so that cuts the market down a lot!
YNOT: What have you learned from your life and career to date?
Natassia: Honestly I’ve learned a lot about men and the dark side of relationships.I know men will create any excuse to do something they really want to do, and nothing surprises me anymore.
Having been a transsexual for about 12 years now I have been in both dating scenes (where guys knew I was TS, and some didn’t). I prefer the guys that are into genetic women because yes, they do lie and cheat, but regardless of this their loyalties stay with the woman.
YNOT: How are guys who like T-girls different from straight guys?
Natassia: Well, the difference in my experience is this: Most of the guys that like transsexuals treat them as a fetish, not a person; which means after the sexual part is done, the relationship ends at that. It’s almost a ‘behind closed doors’ type of thing.
Guys who don’t know that I’m a TS or are into genetic girls aren’t afraid to take the relationship outside of the bedroom into normal life. (Some, not all; I should say.)
YNOT: Does it both you that men who are attracted to T-girls are apparently not looking for genetic women, but rather a ‘chick with a dick’?
Natassia: Yes, it does because they objectify our gender as just being sexual deviants who sleep with whoever throws us a bone, and it’s not like that. I do appreciate a man who knows what he wants, but it is usually their approach and delivery that they need to work on. We are not bears that wait in caves to suck your dick or fuck you in the ass when you want them to. It doesn’t work like that. At least I’m speaking for myself (she laughs). If there were men who liked transsexuals and treated us like the women we are, then I wouldn’t have a problem with it. Unfortunately that’s not the case.
YNOT: What are your future plans?
Nayassia: I plan to give the industry one more year to see what it’s got and if it can make a turnaround – because its not as fun as it used to be. We need new guys, new scenarios, and good recognition for the industry to motivate me to stay. I am the one who does this for fun because I enjoy it, and lately it’s starting to feel more and more like work.
I plan on continuing training in Mixed Martial Arts (Krav Maga, Muay Thai) and I want to start a little BJJ training also. I would like to take my knowledge in the arts and personal training working out, and make my own business as a traveling trainer who is fluent in three languages.
Ultimately, I would like to have my own studio and have the best trainers come in and teach at my gym. That will give me a chance to have my pick of the guys I like. I won’t go to them; they will come to me!
