YNOT – With the piracy induced filming slowdown that’s adversely affecting almost all but the most financially gifted companies and some producers who have “investors” with deep pockets, the opportunity for me to perform on camera as a means of sexually getting “off” has ebbed considerably. Thank goodness for the swinging women and the groupies here in the San Diego area who get “off” from having sex with this old porn star.

I’m thankful every time some guy calls to coordinate having his wife or girlfriend do a “drive-by” on her way home from work; of course, her guy benefits because she then goes home to a re-shower and a roll in the sack with him. These get-togethers give me sexual pleasure and a subsequent feeling of satisfaction knowing the couple is going to make love after she just had sex with me.

No, I don’t feel like I was “used.” For the most part, these are beautiful women who would never have unbridled sex with me if I wasn’t a porn star and old enough to be their father or grandfather. Perhaps the “daddy” aspect is part of their sexual excitement. Candidly, it’s just sex for me, but it’s damn fine sex with no strings attached, and it’s a lot better than me having to masturbate.

In case you’re wondering, except for receiving oral from the women, I always use condoms while having intercourse in my off-camera sex life. Always.

I very much enjoy the NFL season, particularly the San Diego Charger game-watching parties some swinger couples enjoy hosting. We invitees try to arrive in time to use the hot tub and pool and to “play” before the game kicks off. At halftime, the pizzas, salads and burgers are delivered, and eating (in more ways than one) begins. Sometimes, cunnilingus and BJs happen right in front of the 10-15 couples watching the game, and if the Chargers are losing badly we often adjourn to a group room for sex.

Notwithstanding the game happenings, we “play” much of the time there. These are not “meet-and-greet” events, but rather are active sex parties. I am fortunate to be a single man who gets invited to these and other local swinger events. I meet with some of the same couples at other times for sex, too, usually with wives who want two orifices filled simultaneously or for their husband to watch and/or film while she and I go at it.

From my performing experiences, I’ve come to appreciate seeing porn starlets play with themselves while having intercourse. I’d like to believe it’s because they seem to be genuinely into the sex. At any rate, I’ve mentioned this to some of the other females I play with, and they then sometimes insert their fingers or rub their clitoris, and some even thank me for mentioning it to them and giving them motivation to touch themselves. I get sexually excited seeing women get so turned on.

I believe it helps to communicate tactfully when it comes to sex. I sense that pleasure can be heightened by sharing our sexual feelings with our partners, especially when the feedback during sex makes the pleasure even better. Heck, we men want to please the woman so that she wants lots of sex — with us! I believe sex sometimes can turn into lovemaking, and after-sex might initiate even more sex.

Some superhighways offer rest areas. I’ve wondered if America and society ever will accept masturbation as a natural, healthy aspect of life, to the point that we might see mini-garages at rest stops where one can insert money into a machine that opens the garage door for a drive-in private period to masturbate. Imagine getting back on the road more focused and attentive to the driving. Maybe someday!

2010 is ending soon. Please, please, please celebrate on New Year’s Eve in a sane and lawful manner, especially as it concerns driving after drinking. Please!

Happy holidays!
Dave

Dave Cummings, “the world’s oldest porn star,” is a performer, producer and director. Visit him online at DaveCummings.com, DaveCummings.tv or DaveCummingsVOD.com.