Have you always wanted to try something from BDSM, but you are afraid and don’t know where to start? Yes, and accessories in a sex shop are somehow expensive. Don’t worry, we’ll help you with this. Do you have a pair of stockings? Tie or silk scarf? Does your bed have a frame? Great, so let’s see how all this can be applied to BDSM.
If you want a little bit of depravity and perversion, or at least a little step away from the usual vanilla sex, then bondage is perfect. After all, everything you need to fulfill this BDSM fantasy can be found at home. But do not rush to tie your partner with a clothesline to a chair in the kitchen, for starters, you should know something. First, and this is the most important part of BDSM, discuss with your partner the boundaries of what is permitted: who exactly will be tied, what can and cannot be done with this person, how a person relates to pain and whether it can be caused at all, and what kind of stop word is needed use if things get really bad or scary. Set the limits and know what you are allowed to do. Second, pay close attention to your partner’s reactions and body language during the act itself. Ask how he or she feels if you see that your partner is uncomfortable. And remember, you don’t have to tie someone’s hand and foot to get erotic rewards from BDSM. It is quite enough to tie a knot on the wrists, even a weak one, from which you can get out on your own. It’s still sexy and exciting.
Let’s take a look at the coolest and most common poses that you can use in forward experiments:
Cowgirl
The name is associated with boundless fields, lush meadows, herds of fat cows, and unbroken stallions. The role of the latter this time is played by a man who must lie on his back, and his arms and legs must be tied to the bed or simply tied together. By the way, in the Besex store, you can find various bondage ropes in different colors. Be sure they are of high quality and great material as well. The main thing is not to tighten the knot too much, so as not to throw away your favorite lace thong later. After the partner is tied, you need to climb on him in the cowgirl position (normal or reverse). The good position is that you can take full advantage of your partner’s immobility: caress your chest in front of him, use a bullet vibrator, and change the speed and depth of penetration. Actually, you can do anything, this time it’s you on top. In all senses.
Doggie style
No, we do not offer relaxation and yoga. Although this pose is to some extent borrowed from there. To get this pose, you need to lie on your stomach on the bed (or wherever you have sex) and stretch your arms forward, which your partner ties over your head. You can even close your eyes. The man then lifts a partner by the hips and enters. It is important to keep your shoulders and knees down while pushing, otherwise, you can get injured. The hands can also be tied with one of the bondages from BeSex collection behind the back, and the legs are widely spaced.
Knees to chest
To make it work, first, you need to tie your ankles and calves together and lay on your back. For this purpose, you may use bondage, and cuff set from here. Then a partner of yours throws your legs over one shoulder and enters you. You can tie your legs looser, leaving a gap sufficient for him to pass, and then throw your legs over both shoulders. In this position, it is convenient to change the depth of penetration. By the way, the partner’s hands can also be tied above your head.
Snow Angel
The woman should lie on her back with her legs wide apart. The partner lies on top, facing the legs. After that, the woman should wrap her legs around his waist and slightly raise the pelvis, which will allow the man, leaning back a little, to enter. Having done this tricky operation, you need to properly lubricate your favorite anal toy with lubricant and insert it into the partner’s anus. Do not forget that you should first discuss this point and get permission for anal games. And first, it is necessary to excite the partner properly, so anal sex always goes better. In addition to toys, you can pat and pinch your partner’s buttocks, and play with his testicles. The main thing is not to overdo it.
The A-girl
To begin with, the man must tie the woman’s wrists to the bed, or simply tie them together above her head. The woman lies in the missionary position. After that, she spreads her legs and lifts them towards the man’s head. He can help by raising his legs at the ankles to a position that is comfortable for the woman, as well as holding them during sex. The position is quite simple, but very popular due to the stimulation of the G-spot.
Pinball Master
The woman lies on her back and then raises her hips as if she were making a bridge shape. Put your hands behind your back and tie them there. The partner lifts her hips and enters, holding the woman by the buttocks. You can wrap your legs around his waist. It is important not to miss the woman at this moment so that she does not fall on her bound hands. It is fraught with injury.
In any way, try to experiment as much as it is possible because only by trying “ exactly that one” pose you can understand whether it suits you or not. Many problems can be solved by knowing the solution: in this situation, the solution is to know “how”. We hope we helped you learn “how” to do what you have long wanted or learned something new for yourself. Do not be afraid to show your desires to your partner. Love yourself, and your partner, and be sure to use BDSM attributes to enjoy.
