Premier women’s erotica site xoafterglow is turning the spotlight on Mistress Marley in a new article, ‘Whipping Yourself Into Shape: Building a Domme Persona’.

Marley, aka ‘The Chocolate Domme’, offers afterglow readers her unique insight into what it takes to become a professional Dominatrix, like focusing on overall personality and how to integrate it into the world of BDSM.

“Domme personalities can range from nurturing and encouraging to bratty and spoiled,” says Marley. “Personally, I consider myself a ‘Sadistic Sensualist’, meaning I will lure you in with my sensuality and femininity, but then I’ll release all of my rage,”

She also offers tips on putting together a ‘Domme Kit’. “A lot of novice Dommes think they have to break the bank to have a great kit, but this isn’t the case at all…. most basic kits can be purchased on Amazon and come with tools such as floggers, handcuffs, blindfolds and ball gags,”

Once adjusted to feeling comfortable with the tools, Marley says that practice makes perfect. “You never want to buy anything that’s above your skill or comfort level. Try asking a partner or friend who consents to being used for practice.”

Want to learn more? Read the full article at xoafterglow.